Your relationship blueprint

    How you love, where you get stuck and what to do about it.

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    What you get

    • Written about you alone, from your own results, not a template

    • How you love, what makes you feel secure and where you get stuck

    • Three blind spots, why they happen and what to try instead

    • The kind of partner who suits you, and early signs of a poor fit

    • How to ask for the love you need, and give it when it is not your style

    • Three small things to try this week

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    What's inside

    What is inside

    Six sections written about you alone, from the profile saved on this device. Whether you are dating, married or single.
    1. Section 1

      How you love

      Your temperament and love language together, in plain words.

    2. Section 2

      What makes you feel secure

      What you need from a partner, and how to ask without it turning into an argument.

    3. Section 3

      Your blind spots

      Three patterns that trip you up, the reason behind each and a small fix.

    4. Section 4

      Who suits you

      Qualities to look for and early signs of a poor fit, for dating, married or single.

    5. Section 5

      Your love language plan

      How to ask for love and how to give it when it is not your natural style.

    6. Section 6

      This week

      Three small, doable actions to start with.

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    A fictional person. Your blueprint is written from your own saved results.

    • Thandi · Phlegmatic · Quality Time · Leans anxious

    Your blind spots

    You are the calm one in most rooms, and people come to you because you do not make a fuss. The cost is that you rarely ask for anything, so partners can miss what you need until it has been missing for a long time.

    Quality time is how you feel loved, and a leaning towards anxious attachment means a cancelled evening can feel bigger than it is. You tend to say it is fine, then replay it later on your own.

    Blind spot 1

    Saying "it's fine" when it is not

    Why it happens

    Keeping the peace feels safer than risking a disagreement, so you smooth things over in the moment and carry the disappointment alone.

    What to do

    Try one sentence the same day: "I was looking forward to tonight. Can we pick another evening this week?" It names the need without starting an argument.

    Your blueprint has six sections like this one, plus three small things to try this week.

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    How it works

    1. 1

      Build your profile

      Take the full test, or the focused ones. Each adds a piece, saved on this device only.

    2. 2

      Pay once

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    3. 3

      Read it and keep it

      Your blueprint appears on a private link within a minute or two, and we email you the link.

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    • Temperament

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    • Love language

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    • Attachment style

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    • Conflict pattern

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    The blueprint is written from your temperament and love language. The full test gives you both, plus attachment, in about 6 minutes.

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