Why do couples keep having the same argument?

Usually a pattern underneath, such as criticism met with defensiveness, repeats whatever the topic is. Naming it is the first step.

Do we both have to answer?

Answer together on one device, talking through each statement. That conversation is part of the test.

No. It is a short conversation starter. If you are struggling, a qualified counsellor can help in ways a quiz cannot.

See which of the four conflict patterns shows up most when you argue, and the antidote researchers recommend.

8 statements, about 2 minutes

Answer together: talk each one over and pick the answer that fits you both.

Love language, temperament and attachment together, with one combined result.